Or is it normal?

[devious]

When I was 3 I had a blanket that I loved so much that I wouldnt sleep without .. after few years and like any blanket it changed colors and became smelly that it cant be used anymore, I still remember the day my mom took it and trying to convince me that we need to get rid of it and she throwed it away from a blacony and showing me brand new that exactly looks like the old one and same color.. despite that I began to cry out load and repeating that I want my blanket! I want my blanket!.. that my Mom had to go down the street and get the old blanket again. :rolleyes:

The blanket story untill now still happens to me several times (not necessary with a blanket).. It is not easy for me to forget something that passed away even for many years because of the fact that I liked it or felt attracted to or had beautiful days with or anything like that.. Im also not talking about girls, Im talking in general.. despite the fact that I always like to make changes in my life.. but ironically I still stick with things that I cant leave or change or forget.. sometimes my head brings it like it happened yesterday!,
Even if they are smallest things and for the others isnt important.. all for the reason that I felt safe with, or because that it reminds me of something that I loved so much, I cant get ride of it.

I know that some of this could sound normal.. but sometimes I feel like Im obsessed towards things that I really shouldnt for many reasons.. when I try to move on and make some changes to let those specific things go away from my head I always fail... Im just getting so bored of this.. and I cant really help it though I tried so much.

Thoughts?

[Sebastian]

When I was 3 I had a blanket that I loved so much that I wouldnt sleep without .. after few years and like any blanket it changed colors and became smelly that it cant be used anymore, I still remember the day my mom took it and trying to convince me that we need to get rid of it and she throwed it away from a blacony and showing me brand new that exactly looks like the old one and same color.. despite that I began to cry out load and repeating that I want my blanket! I want my blanket!.. that my Mom had to go down the street and get the old blanket again. :rolleyes:

The blanket story untill now still happens to me several times (not necessary with a blanket).. It is not easy for me to forget something that passed away even for many years because of the fact that I liked it or felt attracted to or had beautiful days with or anything like that.. Im also not talking about girls, Im talking in general.. despite the fact that I always like to make changes in my life.. but ironically I still stick with things that I cant leave or change or forget.. sometimes my head brings it like it happened yesterday!,
Even if they are smallest things and for the others isnt important.. all for the reason that I felt safe with, or because that it reminds me of something that I loved so much, I cant get ride of it.

I know that some of this could sound normal.. but sometimes I feel like Im obsessed towards things that I really shouldnt for many reasons.. when I try to move on and make some changes to let those specific things go away from my head I always fail... Im just getting so bored of this.. and I cant really help it though I tried so much.

Thoughts?

I am even more peculiar than you in this aspect...I had this conversation with Giorgio...I have this glass which is older than i am so everyone is afright to touch it because if they breake it they will be in trouble...I have a t shirt from when i was 2 years old,it's with a rockets and stuff like that i still hold on to it...Since Matter is another side of the coint and the energy the other,it's all abut the energy that we transmit to this universe.Objects receive that energy,it's not something metaphisical,it's just phisics...+there's the nostalgia that reminds us of a certain time interval we experienced with that particular object...It's like hearing a song that is connected with some period of our life.Whenever i hear the song Is this love from Whitesnake i immediately recall when i was in the army.Or when i see this comic that i received a long time ago i feel this nostalgia about those egsact moments and what we laughed about with my friend...All objects are connected with the space and time continuum like everything in this universe.We infuence them just as they influence to us it's a sybmiotic conection...That blanket is useless to me just as my glass is useless to you,but we are atached to them because they are a part of the brief period in our lives,called Childhood.Everything that reminds us about that is priceless.We are what we are because of the enviroment that effect us,if they make a new Leonardo Da Vinci,his clone more egsacly he will be some dude who look like him,but he can newer be Leonardo the real...This enviroment is diferent than the one that had an effect on the real Leonardo...They say to me that i shouldnt atach to that glass but it's my business...

[devious]

yeah.. tell me about it..

I had a cat when I was 15, Ive raised this cat like it was my little child, I can almost speak to him and understand his needs.. I spent with Roxy a beautiful 4 years of my life.. and someday some tragic accident happened that he felt from the balacony from the 8th floor..althought he shouldhave died immediatly, but when I ran down stairs I heared his voice screaming and I was surprised! he is still alive!!.. I ran down street holding the cat to the nearest veterinary, I remember was wearing a short and nothing in my feet.. and it was 12 am and I had to awaken the doc.. she saw the kitty and tried her best but she told me I should give him a shot.. ther eis nothing she can do and it would be best to give him a shot to die quickly without pain.
well.. so far that was the most painful moment in my life.. I knw for some it`s just kitti and I have like 9 now.. but that one was like a son to me.. it was so hard watching my son dying infront of my eyes and I can help it but to stand and watch.. Im truly with no power at all.. just standing and watch the kittie dying.. I just cant describe that moment.

I spent 2 weeks after crying everyday and couldnt eat well nor sleep.. it was like a hard lesson to me.. and also that was the first spark to fire my head to start thinking about life and death and God and so on..

When I remember something like that, I just find some tears coming from my eyes like it happened just yesterday and I can remember everything in details although Im a guy with a very bad memory.

The same senario happens to me remembering ppl that I used to care for and time choosed that we should separate.. or things that I used to love and lost them.

I think it`s just so unhealthy to remeber things like that, specially that those things wont really help you to get progress in anything or wont benefit at all.. and those ppl propably wont remember you like you do right now and they dont even care.. this situation is so wrong. I really need to get ride of this natural habite.. I just find it so hard to just forget those spicifci things, Im afraid in future this problem would be much more complicated as I`ll be knowing much ppl and having much of other experiance.

I dont know what to do really..

[devious]

well.. guess no one is perfect.. this is life. :rolleyes:

[Zek]

I'll cry now... :silly:

Guys you're into female forum conversations. I understand you could be attached to something, but sometimes you need to get over it! I am also attached to few things like my laptop, but with time as I am using the other laptop I am getting less and less attached to my old laptop. Basically, life goes on and I do not want to stick to stuff which is obviously out of date for me (does not necessarily mean I'll throw it away).

As for living creatures (cats, dogs, humans & etc) I get attached only to close ones and attached strongly! Then sometimes have to go throw painful process of splitting...

[Sebastian]

I'll cry now... :silly:

Guys you're into female forum conversations. I understand you could be attached to something, but sometimes you need to get over it! I am also attached to few things like my laptop, but with time as I am using the other laptop I am getting less and less attached to my old laptop. Basically, life goes on and I do not want to stick to stuff which is obviously out of date for me (does not necessarily mean I'll throw it away).

As for living creatures (cats, dogs, humans & etc) I get attached only to close ones and attached strongly! Then sometimes have to go throw painful process of splitting...
...Laptop...:D...Of course you're atached to the laptop dude..:lol:...who isnt atached to his laptop...But we're discussing about worthless stuff for which fe are peculiary atached...fr'instance a blanket or a ordinary glass for drinking..."Carbon units"like cats dogs even tarantulas are living creatures so it is not strange when we do care and love them...and cry when they die...

[devious]

Yeah.. life goes on.. easy to say for some ppl..