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[Zek]

I am approaching a moment of sadness cauz it's one of the moments when I do not know what to do...

simply, from last week on I have no girlfriends officially and unofficially... I have none to go for shelter, cinema and sex... since September I normally had a couple of girlfriends and couple of alternative options... now I am sick of it, I always thought it's kinda cool, but now changed my opinion.

I have three 'nice and even beautiful' options and all three are the girls I can't hang out with just for fun, it's either very serious relationship or nothing... There is one special person I like a lot, but I've lost her contacts and just hope to be lucky to meet her in a street... :(

Afraid to get married, I don't want to get married, but maybe I shall choose one of those girls and have a serious relationship for once? My last serious experience failed completely, I spent so much time and money and effort and now I am so happy for not taking any senseless decision like marrying her or engagement...

don't know what to do and this is quite depressing...

[devious]

Oh man, I sweer that`s right that ppl say that sometimes ppl that think like eachother could face similar event!
I met this girl 2 days ago (I was a virgin untill then :D) she was calling me all the time on my cel phone and I dont know her begging me to meet her.. I didnt want to meet her cause I though it`s a silly joke from one of my freinds.. but she kept calling me for about a year! so my freind incourage me to meet her and know what the hell is going on.. I went their and she was one of the most beautiful girls Ive ever saw! and what`s more surprising and interesting is she knows almost everything about me! like my freind said after listen to this story .. she is Obsessed!
in that night I met her I Im no longer a virgin :D (and she too!) I`ve spent the last 2 days in her appartment all we do is sex! she is perfect.. we almost do everything in the book!! Im serious.. everything!! :lol:
well I know that u guys will start to enviu me, but there is a serious problem that I`m having and feel but Im not sure, is that I relay dont feel like Im in love with this girl! but that realy sounds redicules.. she is making me feel like a king, she treat me like a master.. she loves me so bloody much.. all she do is to please me and didnt try to hurt me., but the problem is I dont have the same feelings towards her! I realy dont know what to do, I like her cause she cares for me, and she is also so sexy and makes me feel good.. but infact Im not in Love! or that what Im feeling! :(

my freind Zek.. the decision of marriage isnt that simple.. it`s a huge responsability.. beside love between you and the one you decide to marriage.. there should be also understandment between u both, cause in a little amonut of time you and her will be facing challenges and problems in life that deem necessary to be prepared to face it togther.
and let me tel you that it`s also not depressing to be alone, that`s realy so fun if u look at it from another angle. I mean look to the guys that have girls having sex and fun.. wow that`s cool and that what I want.. but I`m sure you know time pass and they`ll have problems that will make them so depressed.. me for example, I realy admitt that I injoyed being a virgin and hardly know girls.. though I was the last resort to my freinds when they have problems with their girl freinds, they came to me crying wants solutions to get back their girl freinds.. and I realy help them with some ways that I invented and Ive never go out or had sex with a girl!! :D.. and afte the go away I say, Oh thank God I`m not like them.. they look so pathetic!! but I admitt that after a little while a hit myself for not having a girl freind hanging out with.. that`s natural.. but in the end I go home a and sleep without thinking about any problems and sleep well for 12 hours.. comparing with now, after knowing this beautiful angel that obsessed about me, there should be no problem!.. but there is.. and it`s me, I dont know.. I like her, but I dont love her.. I like doing sex with her.. she treat me so good and also I treat her like a queen.. but from deep inside of me I`m feeling terrible, cause I feel like I`m deciving her,I pretent to be in love with her.. but I only like her sex and her beauty! Oh God it`s so complicated!!! :(
so zek what u think? what`s more depressing!? :sick:

[GiorgioII]

Zek, I experienced something very similar to what you are going through a few years back and there is no easy answer. Just do what suits you best. If you just want fun and these chicks cannot give it to you then it is not worth it..........I think you already know what you should do :) .

ramy dude, the girl is a nutter.....how did she know all of this stuff about you?? :D She's probably a killer :lol: . Seriously dude, congratulations, good work :) .

[GiorgioII]

And remember........rubber up :D .

[devious]

hahahaa.. thanks for the advise :lol:
you realy makes me worry man, she realy knows alot, she`s tracking me since a year and some months.. she even knows what I realy want before I say. isnt that just magic! or is it a little bit scary!? :rolleyes: :D
but it`s still.. she realy looks like in love with me. serious love.. I have good feelings towards her, I like being with her, and I miss her all the time, is it the love? cause Im still not sure Im in real love with the girl!? :(

[Ryan27]

There is one special person I like a lot, but I've lost her contacts and just hope to be lucky to meet her in a street... :(

Afraid to get married, I don't want to get married, but maybe I shall choose one of those girls and have a serious relationship for once? My last serious experience failed completely, I spent so much time and money and effort and now I am so happy for not taking any senseless decision like marrying her or engagement...

don't know what to do and this is quite depressing...
I'd say go out of your way and find that girl again. If she is who you really want, don't 'settle' for someone else. The ideal girl is the one that makes your blood pressure and heart beat rate rise just looking at her or even thinking about her.

relationships take effort. but don't spend too much money in them. if it can't work out without you spending lots of your cash, then it wasn't meant to be. as you probably know, serious relationships and/or marriage involve more than just sex or even love. There is also companionship and having someone that is always there for you when you need them to be. If you ever decide you want to get married zek, make sure she is someone that is truly caring.

[Ryan27]

in that night I met her I Im no longer a virgin :D (and she too!) I`ve spent the last 2 days in her appartment all we do is sex! she is perfect.. we almost do everything in the book!! Im serious.. everything!! :lol:
well I know that u guys will start to enviu me, but there is a serious problem that I`m having and feel but Im not sure, is that I relay dont feel like Im in love with this girl! but that realy sounds redicules.. she is making me feel like a king, she treat me like a master.. she loves me so bloody much.. all she do is to please me and didnt try to hurt me., but the problem is I dont have the same feelings towards her!
Well that just sounds like a grand ol time ;) . Maybe you don't feel like you're in love with her because it happened too easily. You didn't have to work for it. As long as you are enjoying it, I say keep doing it. Just don't make false promises to her. And in the meanwhile, imagine what your life would be like without her and whether or not you'd miss her. And if you're still sure you don't love her, then there really isn't anything you can do. you haven't done anything wrong.

[Zek]

hmmm never thought will get so many responses... I was just pissed off that evening...

the problem was that I kinda like all those serious girls and they all are nice to me... all of them would expect serious relationship, which I don't want to offer :lol: and for that special one - have to search her and then again get married? I am not confident in marriage things... and I am afraid to get bored and inconsistent in long term relationship :(

The issue became so critical to me recently, I just can't stand those dates with various girls, each of them have their own priorities or dreams and you kinda get together for few weeks maybe months and then cut off... They're not angry on me, but I don't feel like being really close to them, keep waiting for the moment when she should be dumped...

Thanks for support G I have this going on for last years... and this week is the first one with no options...

So I quit all relationships and now don't know will just wait and try to find the one Ryan advised to find :) She's really beautiful...

Congratulations Ramy! A salesman next door will get bankrupt when you stop shopping soap from now on :D

Spend some time with that girl and see if you change your opinion... at least it's not bad idea to hang out with her in absence of any other entertainments, but don't break her heart ;) she should remember you in only positive way or maybe you're gonna spent the rest of you life with her, she's special on all ways and she's your first girl! It's very important! even i with all this cynism still date my first woman, although she's married...

haha from now on Ramy won't have any climaxes and will stop talking about suicidal paranoia :D btw, how can you sleep well without dating a woman? paradox! you start seeing porn dreams and then wake up wet :D

[devious]

hahahahaa.. you zek!!!! :lol: :lol: I used to sleep well because didnt have to think about how perfect the date was and what will I`ll do tomorrow to make her happy, that`s a huge responsablity if u realy care for the girl, isnt it? ;)
thanks Ryan dude, Im realy injoying my time with her, and I wouldnt ever think about breaking her heart, Im not a bad guy! also she never asked me for anything, she keep telling me is being with me is the world for her! well... gotta like what she always say to me man!! :) .. well.. about me, I`ll wait.. I hope it goes to the happy ending :)
btw Zek, the salesman was crying yesterday after seeing me with the girl :lol: :D

[Zek]

good luck man!!! haha that's true it's not just me, you can't work normally and sleep if you don't have sex with someone or yourself... and salesman thought 'damn when I was at his age I did not even dream of walking next with the woman' ;)

i stopped caring about dates and making them funny and romantic cauz my recent dates weren't that bright, but very pretty or almost beatiful and there was no need for imagination :lol:

anyway, just got an invitation to a party actually to partner one chick ;) kindly refused officially tired, unofficially bored and concentrating on a derby tonight! Forza INTER!!!

and made up my mind I am gonna wait with any decision :love: till new year and see what happens :evil: feel much better now

[devious]

lol :D cool.. Im with u about Inter comes first, Ive succefuly took a break and ran away from the appartment of heaven to watch Inter`s match today! :D, and I hope Inter shows me that I did right doing that.. hehe :D
anyway Ill be back after the game, but at least I want a win from Inter to make my day brighter, right? ;)

[Lance Knight]

damn zek u just horny, dont worry nothing wrong, u wont die

[Zek]

lol :D cool.. Im with u about Inter comes first, Ive succefuly took a break and ran away from the appartment of heaven to watch Inter`s match today! :D, and I hope Inter shows me that I did right doing that.. hehe :D
anyway Ill be back after the game, but at least I want a win from Inter to make my day brighter, right? ;)


apartment of heaven :evil:

yeah Inter made our day!!! Don't know why but I felt that I should stay home and watch the game, and it paid back!

[Zek]

Lance :D - i am just saying what others normally don't

just read back the whole thread (my story and Ramy's story) and concluded:

the guy hit bingo and still in thinking... there's nothing to please a man unless he gets several equally good short term options :)

[devious]

hehe.. yeah maybe!

[Lance Knight]

lol nah not me, i just cant do a girl that, i mighten care too much about the girl but i would care about her feelings cause i surely wouldnt her to that to me, i know it sounds a bit dumb, but its just me

[devious]

ooooohh! Lance, you are so sweet :D
:lol: ;)

[Lance Knight]

i know, but girls always go for the bad boy routine, it pisses me off when i see girls throughing themselves at jerks

[Zek]

i know, but girls always go for the bad boy routine, it pisses me off when i see girls throughing themselves at jerks

that always suprised me too... but hey don't through a stone on me cauz I am not behaving like that I normally tell the expectations and leave when people want more expectations ;) but yeah i was bad recently...

it often happened at swedish discos where beautiful girls will throw themselves on stupid jerks (uneducated and unfit physically)... that was a frustration...

[devious]

yeah.. so unfortunatly! matbe we guys should go to sweden and teach the girls their for who they should throw themselves :D

[Lance Knight]

oh but on our way there can we stop off in finland, there is this girl i want to meet at this university, :D

[devious]

:lol:.. yeah ofcourse.. but I doubt you`ll find her in the university.. she`s skipping nowadays!

[Lance Knight]

dont worry i'll find her, if i got to show everyone a pic or something, lol

[Zek]

an update out of three good options:

just found the one I liked a lot at school many years ago has finally found a boyfriend :( I should have been more proactive couple of month ago whne she asked me to go out... :sad:

the other one told me that she's thinking of marriage only yesterday, so she's gone...

this reduces my options to the one I really want to hang out with or fall in deep love :) , what's in a way nice, as i am more certain now, but a bit frustrated to lose that girl from my school ;)

[Lance Knight]

hmm... well i got some options
1) i got the girl i am with
2) one of her friends
3) this girl from lessons
4) one of my neighbour
5) three girls at school

but i seriously dont f around, i sticking with my girl at the moment

[Ryan27]

this reduces my options to the one I really want to hang out with or fall in deep love :) , what's in a way nice, as i am more certain now, but a bit frustrated to lose that girl from my school ;)
zek, perhaps u should have been a sultan or something with a large harem ;).

I hope this remaining option of yours works out...if not, maybe you should just travel or something and find a girl in another country. I hear Swedish girls are blonde and friendly, but then that might just be an American stereotype...

[devious]

hehe.. Travelling is a nice idea, but I think Zek is so busy now to travel, maybe the third option will be cool ;)

and I dontthink you Lance have any problems with the girls as far as I can understand ;)

Ive broke up with the girl yesterday.. she was a bitch.

[Lance Knight]

dude that was like sooooooo cool, like a fricking movie, that was awesome, well the important thing is that u got your d*** sucked, :lol:

[devious]

.... I edited my last post, no point for posting the story now.

[Zek]

zek, perhaps u should have been a sultan or something with a large harem ;).

I hope this remaining option of yours works out...if not, maybe you should just travel or something and find a girl in another country. I hear Swedish girls are blonde and friendly, but then that might just be an American stereotype...

would not mind Ryan ;)

actually they're friendly and blonde and very beautiful and comparably easy going but they have some sort of obsession to go out with strange people :sad:

[Zek]

hehe.. Travelling is a nice idea, but I think Zek is so busy now to travel, maybe the third option will be cool ;)

and I dontthink you Lance have any problems with the girls as far as I can understand ;)

Ive broke up with the girl yesterday.. she was a bitch.

yep, I am a bit busy and low on money to afford a visit to Sweden... actually I lived there couple of years, now collecting money to go to Greece this summer.

man, yesterday I met one girl at a new year party (going out everyday this and coming week), she came to my table stood there, then we chat boringly, then we found common interests, and all that time I was staring madly on her, then we danced and then ... I forgot to ask her for a date and her mob number :( I was so stressed of suddenly meeting such a beauty that completely forgot everything... all day was blaming myself...

[Zek]

Ive broke up with the girl yesterday.. she was a bitch.


how sweet :faint: I am really sorry for you mate! but things happen for good anyway!

Story1:
it's painful to see your first girl story turning bad... but maybe you'll change your opinion when will cool down...
Story2:
if not then, at least you had spent nice time with her! it is not everyday you get together with a nice girl and actually have a nice time! ;)

take care and be strong!!!

ps: please stop changing signature I am on gprs connection and having hard times to download one every other minute ;)

[devious]

hehe.. ok zek sorry about the signture thing..
I realy dont care about this bitch.. she was acting and playing the innocent virgin rule, and I`ve basted her with some other jerk.. so I just gave her couple of words in her ass and left laughing.. Im not feeling sad or something.. it`s just, a weired situation for me.. I dont think I`m gona trust many girls after this experiance, I dont want to fall in love with a girl that only wanted my dick and not my love.. Im so sensetive and romantic, so I think I`ll avoid the datingthing for some time now.. need to take a break you know.

[Zek]

hehe.. ok zek sorry about the signture thing..
I realy dont care about this bitch.. she was acting and playing the innocent virgin rule, and I`ve basted her with some other jerk.. so I just gave her couple of words in her ass and left laughing.. Im not feeling sad or something.. it`s just, a weired situation for me.. I dont think I`m gona trust many girls after this experiance, I dont want to fall in love with a girl that only wanted my dick and not my love.. Im so sensetive and romantic, so I think I`ll avoid the datingthing for some time now.. need to take a break you know.

hmmm... okay sensitive boy ;) at the end of the day it's nice that someone has an appreciation for your dick :silly: it happens, but nice to see a person who has not lost his romance! seriously :smoking:

not all girls are like that, you'll find a decent one sooner or maybe later ;)

but meanwhile she helped you to lose your virginity, maybe she'll call and ask you for more sex? that's an interesting moment then, a brain against your instrument :silly:

[devious]

it happened today, and the brain won this time.. I shouldnt just leave her and next day sleep with her even for only sex ententions, but she told me she`ll call later, I tried to tell her you dont have too and I dont want her, but instrument stopped me realy.. huh! I told her instead I`ll think about that :rolleyes:, she told me that maybe Ive lied to u in many things, but she said that she found my sex is the best she had since she starting do it, I think I feel flattered you know, but Im still not self-satisfied... maybe I needed something deeper than this, real love + sex is what realy makes me a happiest man on earth.. but I think you cant get everything that you want.

[Zek]

sooner or later you'll find a compatible one :silly:

so the best instrument she ever new? :lol: good job Ramy!!!

[devious]

hehe.. well, be very proud of me ;)

[Lance Knight]

D u dissappiont me, whatever happened to love?

[devious]

D u dissappiont me, whatever happened to love?
dont worry Lance.. Ive fixed everything today, she called again and she wanted me to go to her place.. and I said no, go and ***k urself bitch, I told her lieing that I have a girl freind now and we are making best sex ever... I felt so free and right when I did that, I would have been so cheap if I agreed, I would have done this since first time I saw her with the other guy.. she leid to me and she should pay.. now let her go and search for better sex than my :D, I doubt it though ;)

[Zek]

hehe.. well, be very proud of me ;)

:lol:

btw, lying is not a good thing either ...

[devious]

yeah I know Zek.. but I had no other options.. she wasnt intend to give up, and I realy wanted this girl out of my life.. :(

[Lance Knight]

good to hear that bud

[devious]

thanks Lance, though I lost a good freind today, I had problems contacting with him and we are separated..
Im in bad mood. shit..

[GiorgioII]

thanks Lance, though I lost a good freind today, I had problems contacting with him and we are separated..
Im in bad mood. shit..

That is bad...I am sure you can resolve things.......you are a good guy, he can't stay mad at you for long:D .

[devious]

That is bad...I am sure you can resolve things.......you are a good guy, he can't stay mad at you for long:D .
thank you G. well.. we solved things out. :)